HDS

You don’t have to choose between your career and your humanity.

Hi! I’m Hannah DeLisle-Stall

Quality & Operations leader. Mom of two. I write about ambition, identity, and building a career that fits real life.

What You’ll Find Here

Working Motherhood

Mental load, ambition, and real life

Life & Identity

Pregnancy, fertility, womanhood and the stories we don’t tell at work

Career & Leadership

Boundaries, systems and modern leadership

Who I am

I’m an engineer by training, a systems thinker by instinct, and a leader who believes the best work happens when rigor and humanity coexist.

I’ve spent more than 15 years leading quality, operations, and program excellence work in highly regulated manufacturing environments, including aerospace, defense, and medical device. I’m known for building management systems that actually work in real life — structured but human, disciplined but adaptable.

I live in a rural town in Upstate New York with my husband and our two boys. I live and operate in a place where leadership, motherhood, community, and creativity intersect. This site is a home for all of those threads. Through essays and reflections, I write about building things — organizations, careers, families, and identities — especially in seasons when the blueprint isn’t obvious.


Essay Archives

  • Coming Clean About My Double Life – As a Working Mom

    When I started a new job last December, I debated when, or if, I would mention to my colleagues that I had an infant at home. After all, I would be working remotely, with a team spread all over the country. I could hide in my home office (coincidentally, just off my son’s nursery), do…

  • I Still Don’t Feel Like a Mom

    Becoming a mother has made me keenly aware of how hard life can be on moms. We shoulder the invisible load. We face insurmountable career hurdles. We are, nearly always, the default parent. It’s impossible to ignore these facts, and the more I scroll through my newsfeed, the more I’m floored by the resilience and strength…

  • 2020 Made Me A Different Mom – And That’s A Good Thing

    It seems like a lifetime ago that I sat at our dining room table one evening in February, calling loved ones to let them know my son’s first birthday party was canceled. There had been several cases of a strange virus in our hometown — the first in the state that could not be traced…

  • Our Family Camping (and Working) Trip

    Many years ago, before we were parents, my husband and I dreamed of being able to work remotely from wherever we wanted. We imagined road trips where we could work from the beach, the ski slopes, and everywhere in between — so long as we had an internet connection and cell phone service. Since we…

  • My Not-So-Secret Obsession with Sesame Street

    I’ve always loved “Sesame Street.” Like most Americans born in the last half-century, I grew up watching, singing, and learning along with Big Bird, Elmo, Oscar, and the whole gang on Sesame Street. Now, I know what you’re thinking — who doesn’t like “Sesame Street”? It holds my toddler’s attention when I need a few minutes to…

  • Flipping the Script on Unsolicited Parenting Advice

    Every parent has experienced it. That moment when someone else — usually with the best of intentions — offers their field-proven advice on how to raise your children. Whether it’s about breastfeeding (or not), sleep training (or not), or even what your child wears (or not?), there will always be someone to offer their sage…

Leadership, motherhood, and career — from inside a real working life.